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PROGRAM APPROVED: The AltSexNYC Conference has been approved by the New York State Education Department’s State Board for Social Work as a continuing education provider (# 0314) for licensed social workers. Attendees will receive 6 NYS SW CE Credits.

PROGRAM APPROVED:  This program meets the requirements of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) and is approved for 6 AASECT CE Credits. These CE Credits may be applied toward AASECT certification and renewal of certification.

May 1, 2020

Trans, Just For The Fun Of It: The Compassionate Practice of Gender in Four Dimensions
9:15AM  -  10:15AM
Trans, Just For The Fun Of It: The Compassionate Practice of Gender in Four Dimensions
210 W 50th St, NYC

Trans, Just For The Fun Of It: The Compassionate Practice of Gender in Four Dimensions

Gender—broadly considered a two dimensional phenomenon described as male-or-female—is both the site of and cause of great personal and cultural suffering. The reason for this is that multi-dimensional understanding of gender by an increasing number of people has reached a cultural tipping point resulting in a painful clash of belief systems. The resolution lies in […]

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Break
10:15AM  -  10:30AM
Break
210 W 50th St, NYC
From the DSM to BDSM: The Role of High-Intensity Kink Play in the Healing and Liberation of Black Women
10:30AM  -  11AM
From the DSM to BDSM: The Role of High-Intensity Kink Play in the Healing and Liberation of Black Women
210 W 50th St, NYC

From the DSM to BDSM: The Role of High-Intensity Kink Play in the Healing and Liberation of Black Women

U.S. Black women have been using all forms of pleasure and eroticism to respond to the intergenerational effects of chattel slavery and genocide. While developing long-standing strategies for protecting our bodies from the constant gaze of white supremacy, we have simultaneously pushed for the complexity of our pleasure and desires to disrupt dominant discourses of […]

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Bate On, Bros: A Safe Space to Heal Sexual Shame for Men Who Like to Masturbate
11AM  -  11:30AM
Bate On, Bros: A Safe Space to Heal Sexual Shame for Men Who Like to Masturbate
210 W 50th St, NYC

Bate On, Bros: A Safe Space to Heal Sexual Shame for Men Who Like to Masturbate

In an era of “toxic masculinity,” sex panic, social isolation, and the eradication of safe spaces for men, it’s all the more critical that we identify and create opportunities for men to connect and heal from sexual repression. Bate culture, centered on the social network Bateworld, offers men a community grounded in mutual affirmation and […]

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Queer and Trans Porn Embody Sexual Self-Reclamation through Objectification of the Self as Other
11:30AM  -  12PM
Queer and Trans Porn Embody Sexual Self-Reclamation through Objectification of the Self as Other
210 W 50th St, NYC

Queer and Trans Porn Embody Sexual Self-Reclamation through Objectification of the Self as Other

Queer and Trans [qt] Porn embodies the symbolization of sexual self-reclamation through objectification of the self as subject-object, as other. We will explore some current qt porn makers and T4T as a self-fetishization/objectification, as it embodies reclamation, self-love and community-love that is healing. The empowerment of disabled qt individuals in sex work as a means […]

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Reclaiming Shame—When Porn Informs Therapy
12PM  -  12:30PM
Reclaiming Shame—When Porn Informs Therapy
210 W 50th St, NYC

Reclaiming Shame—When Porn Informs Therapy

For most of us, sex is a subjective, lived experience that is as unique as our genetic make-up, our upbringing, our thoughts, values, feelings, beliefs and ideas. It is through our erotic interactions, or the absence thereof, that we form aspects of our fluid and mutable erotic paths and identities. Despite the abundance sexually explicit […]

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TBA
2PM  -  2:30PM
TBA
210 W 50th St, NYC
Can You Be Demisexual and Still Swipe Right?
2:30PM  -  3PM
Can You Be Demisexual and Still Swipe Right?
210 W 50th St, NYC

Can You Be Demisexual and Still Swipe Right?

We live in a technology-driven and fast pace age in which we are constantly one swipe away from our next relationship and flooded with options upon options for hookups. But what about the people who have a different way of you’ve ever found yourself to be one of those people who rarely develop crushes, can’t […]

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Relationship Anarchy as a Tool for Empowerment
3PM  -  3:30PM
Relationship Anarchy as a Tool for Empowerment
210 W 50th St, NYC

Relationship Anarchy as a Tool for Empowerment

Relationship Anarchy works to relate to others in a way that is less defined by expectations, assumptions, rules, and obligations. It is a philosophy and practice grounded in respect for autonomy, authentic co-willing, consent, and anti-authoritarianism. It questions the conventional social norms, beliefs, and customs around relationships such as ownership, scarcity and entitlement. Relationship Anarchy […]

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Healing Through Whoredom: From Patriarchy to Embodiment
3:30PM  -  4PM
Healing Through Whoredom: From Patriarchy to Embodiment
210 W 50th St, NYC

Healing Through Whoredom: From Patriarchy to Embodiment

Can sex work be a healing modality? What does hands-on sexual healing look like? In my own life, unprocessed trauma both led me to sex work and was healed by it. Sex work was a place where I could re-learn bodily autonomy and boundaries and overcome body dysmorphia – while being financially rewarded for the […]

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Break
4PM  -  4:15PM
Break
210 W 50th St, NYC
“I love you but you need to take yo’ ass home”—Boundary Formation, Maintenance, and Severance in Polyamorous Relationships
4:15PM  -  5:15PM
“I love you but you need to take yo’ ass home”—Boundary Formation, Maintenance, and Severance in Polyamorous Relationships
210 W 50th St, NYC

“I love you but you need to take yo’ ass home”—Boundary Formation, Maintenance, and Severance in Polyamorous Relationships

In some poly relationships, individuals believe that they should invest more time in relational building and maintenance that they have difficulty negotiating and navigating appropriate boundaries to forming attachments with partner(s). In these relationships, their partner(s) may want time or space in order to take care of themselves differently than they would if their partner […]

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Q&A Panel: Alt Sex and Sexual Self-Reclamation
5:15PM  -  6PM
Q&A Panel: Alt Sex and Sexual Self-Reclamation
210 W 50th St, NYC

Q&A Panel: Alt Sex and Sexual Self-Reclamation

The Q&A panel is not included in the continuing education credits, which means that professionals who would like 6 CEs have the option of leaving after the last speaker preceding the Q&A panel. Having said that, the Q&A is everyone’s opportunity to ask any and all questions about any of the speakers talks, or anything […]

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